masarap talaga ang feeling ng IN LOVE... lahat naman tayo naiinlab...
pero marami sa atin ang INFATUATED lang...
pero MAG-KA-I-BA sila...suriin mo ang nararamdaman mo...
ang INFATUATION ay matinding paghanga...
it is an instant desire...
matindi ang iyong pagnanais na makasama ang isang tao...
samantala, ang PAG-IBIG ay tila nag-aalab na pagkakaibigan...
ika nga, it takes root and grows one day at a time...
kusa itong sumisibol...
hindi ito padalos-dalos o pabigla-bigla...
kapag ikaw ay INFATUATED, may feeling ka of insecurity...
hindi ka mapalagay...
oo nga at excited ka ngunit hindi ka totoong masaya...
sometimes, you doubt him/her...
sometimes you always ask but seems to find no answer...
may mga bagay din tungkol sa kanya na gusto mong malaman...
at pag hindi mo ito magustuhan,
like hindi mo pala gusto yung taste of clothes niya,
you'd feel very disappointed...
it might shatter the image you've built about him/her...
LOVE, on the other hand, understands...
it knows that your loved one has imperfections...
ito ang totoong pag-ibig...
binibigyan ka nito ng kalakasan...
you even feel his/her presence kahit na malayo siya...
distance is not a hindrance for your love not to grow...
you're sure he/she is with you in spirit...
of course, you want him/her near...
but near or far,
you know he/she loves you as much as you love him/her...
you can wait for him/her...no matter what...
when you're INFATUATED,
you tend to say that you want to get married as soon as time possible...
masasabi mo na," I can't afford to lose you!"....
samantala, when you're IN LOVE,
you don't rush into anything...
you're patient...
you don't panic...
you plan your future carefully...
INFATUATION is smart with sexual excitement...
you want constant intimacy with him/her...
samantala, LOVE is a maturation of friendship...
it is always best to be friends first before becoming lovers...
pag INFATUATED ka,
iniisip mo na baka nagiging unfaithful na siya sa'yo...
LOVE is trusting the other person...
you know you can trust him/her...
and by feeling this way,
he/she even becomes more trustworthy...
dahil INFATUATED ka,
maaari kang makagawa ng mga bagay
na maaari mong mapagsisisihan in the end...
but with LOVE, you are sure of your every move...
maginhawa ang iyong pakiramdam...
you function well...
nagiging mas mabuti kang tao pag alam mo
na pag-ibig nga ang iyong nararamdaman...
think about it... think about the difference between
LOVE and INFATUATION...
you know, GOD is NOT a killjoy in love affairs...
LOVE is HIS idea...
He wants you to enjoy the REAL THING! but......you have to be WISE!
or else, you might MISS it out...
worse, you'll just break hearts
or find yourself singing,
"sinaktan mo ang puso ko..." after all, you're not settling for second best, right?THE RIGHT ONE
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Somebody once told me that :"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start fromthere...you'll always end up disappointed when you setstandards and define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God ispreparing somebody for you."
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationshipbecause you can never find loveif you insist that you are already into it.Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,to know who you really are,and what you really want in a relationship.You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship,but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.If you already knew that you're too big to fitinto a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.You'll probably break it and pay for the damages youhave made.
If you knew and felt that the relationshipwill not last, don't go deeper into it.You'll just suffer the consequencesand live like hell for the rest of your life.It's really hard to say goodbye though,but you can't make it any better by just pretendingyou still have the same feelings.Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart amuch needed attention.Then you will find that you have made the right decisionand you made it all by yourself.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and seethem crying as we try to let go.We are wrong, it's just pity.We call it love when we're too attachedand think that losing the one we love will somehowmake us weak and unable to face the storms of life.We misunderstood, its just that we'retoo much dependent to them.We call it love when we give our whole life to them,the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,no one would accept us and our past.We are mistaken, its just insecurity.But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remainsthat love isn't something you can buy or beg.It is real and existing.You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.You can't find it,but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserableperson in the whole galaxy
pero marami sa atin ang INFATUATED lang...
pero MAG-KA-I-BA sila...suriin mo ang nararamdaman mo...
ang INFATUATION ay matinding paghanga...
it is an instant desire...
matindi ang iyong pagnanais na makasama ang isang tao...
samantala, ang PAG-IBIG ay tila nag-aalab na pagkakaibigan...
ika nga, it takes root and grows one day at a time...
kusa itong sumisibol...
hindi ito padalos-dalos o pabigla-bigla...
kapag ikaw ay INFATUATED, may feeling ka of insecurity...
hindi ka mapalagay...
oo nga at excited ka ngunit hindi ka totoong masaya...
sometimes, you doubt him/her...
sometimes you always ask but seems to find no answer...
may mga bagay din tungkol sa kanya na gusto mong malaman...
at pag hindi mo ito magustuhan,
like hindi mo pala gusto yung taste of clothes niya,
you'd feel very disappointed...
it might shatter the image you've built about him/her...
LOVE, on the other hand, understands...
it knows that your loved one has imperfections...
ito ang totoong pag-ibig...
binibigyan ka nito ng kalakasan...
you even feel his/her presence kahit na malayo siya...
distance is not a hindrance for your love not to grow...
you're sure he/she is with you in spirit...
of course, you want him/her near...
but near or far,
you know he/she loves you as much as you love him/her...
you can wait for him/her...no matter what...
when you're INFATUATED,
you tend to say that you want to get married as soon as time possible...
masasabi mo na," I can't afford to lose you!"....
samantala, when you're IN LOVE,
you don't rush into anything...
you're patient...
you don't panic...
you plan your future carefully...
INFATUATION is smart with sexual excitement...
you want constant intimacy with him/her...
samantala, LOVE is a maturation of friendship...
it is always best to be friends first before becoming lovers...
pag INFATUATED ka,
iniisip mo na baka nagiging unfaithful na siya sa'yo...
LOVE is trusting the other person...
you know you can trust him/her...
and by feeling this way,
he/she even becomes more trustworthy...
dahil INFATUATED ka,
maaari kang makagawa ng mga bagay
na maaari mong mapagsisisihan in the end...
but with LOVE, you are sure of your every move...
maginhawa ang iyong pakiramdam...
you function well...
nagiging mas mabuti kang tao pag alam mo
na pag-ibig nga ang iyong nararamdaman...
think about it... think about the difference between
LOVE and INFATUATION...
you know, GOD is NOT a killjoy in love affairs...
LOVE is HIS idea...
He wants you to enjoy the REAL THING! but......you have to be WISE!
or else, you might MISS it out...
worse, you'll just break hearts
or find yourself singing,
"sinaktan mo ang puso ko..." after all, you're not settling for second best, right?THE RIGHT ONE
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Somebody once told me that :"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start fromthere...you'll always end up disappointed when you setstandards and define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God ispreparing somebody for you."
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationshipbecause you can never find loveif you insist that you are already into it.Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,to know who you really are,and what you really want in a relationship.You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship,but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.If you already knew that you're too big to fitinto a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.You'll probably break it and pay for the damages youhave made.
If you knew and felt that the relationshipwill not last, don't go deeper into it.You'll just suffer the consequencesand live like hell for the rest of your life.It's really hard to say goodbye though,but you can't make it any better by just pretendingyou still have the same feelings.Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart amuch needed attention.Then you will find that you have made the right decisionand you made it all by yourself.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and seethem crying as we try to let go.We are wrong, it's just pity.We call it love when we're too attachedand think that losing the one we love will somehowmake us weak and unable to face the storms of life.We misunderstood, its just that we'retoo much dependent to them.We call it love when we give our whole life to them,the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,no one would accept us and our past.We are mistaken, its just insecurity.But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remainsthat love isn't something you can buy or beg.It is real and existing.You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.You can't find it,but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserableperson in the whole galaxy
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